Trying to fit a square into a circle

My friend Bianca onced told me"Never make somebody a priority. when to them you are just an option". Why do we alway try to make that one special person the center of our life? Why do we always put them on some pedestal, when we know good and well that they don't deserve to be there. They have hurt us time and time again, but we can't seem to shake them loose? Why do I continue to fight for something us, when I am the only one fighting? We try to make that special person to be that Mrs. Right or that Mr. Right, when we know that it will never happen. When we know that we are the only ones putting in the effort. We ignore best friends when they tell us to move on. We constantly check their statuses on aim/myspace/facebook just to see if they would mention our name so that we can tell everybody that he/she is changing, that everybody who was telling me to move on was wrong because they are changing. But... that never happen. We sometimes get more hurt when we check their status "aww i luv u 2 boo" "party was crazy got mad numbaz". The pain is like a cancer, it affects every aspect of our live. We can't focus at work, home, or at school. We don't try to talk to anybody else in that way, because we think that our "love" will come around and sweep us off of our feet. We cannot continue to "try to fit a square in a circle" we must move on... We must enter a new season, and find someone who is a perfect match.. x0x0<3