Honestly.. I don't know who I would choose if it came down to a friend vs a boo. I think I have to look outside of the titles of boo and friend, and examine them both as persons. I have to see who is a better person in general, and who has more faults than the other. I have to examine who is more truthful and who has my best interest at heart. I never understood why girls sometimes avoid the advice that friends from over 10 years give them, and listen to a boy who they knew for less than a month. It is wierd when a friend change up on you when they get a little love in your life, and when their heart get broken, they come back running to you for help. Some people say that they would trust a boo over a friend due to jealousy and envy from that friend. But if they are envious and jealous towards you, they are not truly your friend. If a bestfriend that I knew told me that he saw my girlfriend of a month, kissing another boy, I would leave that girl in a heartbeat, with no explanation. The reason is because friends come before a girlfriend, especially when it is so early in the relationship. If it was later on in the relationship, like five months down the line, I would probably have a hard time choosin sides... What would you do?
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