Playing the fence

Many people look at cheating, as if there is something they are doing wrong. I feel that anybody who puts themselves down to justify another's action, is wrong. It is a problem conflicting inside of the cheater that is causing you to cheat. A couple of blogs ago I felt that sometimes there were reasons to cheat, but a good friend named Anna, helped me to realize that there is never a reason to cheat. If something is wrong with the person you are going out with, or seeing, just talk to them, and if that don't work out, just end it. You cheating just mean that you are selfish, and inconsiderate of one's feelings. I hate when girls cry themselves to sleep because a dude just cheat on them. They think that something is wrong with them, that they are ugly, that they were loving to hard, or not loving that much. The person who is cheating is the one with the problem, they don't truly understand the definition of love, and are too immature to handle a person like you. Boys also kick themselves when a girl cheat on them. They start to change up their swagg, and vow to never let anyone hurt them like their last love did. They promise to always hurt the person before they hurt them, and never get to deep. They to in turn cheat, because they are still trying to fill the pain that was caused from a previous relationship. It is a continous cycle. Never change up yourself because it is not within you where the problem lies, it is with the person who playes the fence. x3