Sometimes love comes around & it knocks you down

Is there a time limit on how long it should take you to fall in love? Or when is too quick or not quick enough to say I love you baby. At times I feel that love cannot be felt in less than a month, but at other times I feel as if who can really put a limit or a capacity on what a person's heart cna feel, especially since we were all created in different ways. Many people dont always use the three words to express their feelings for a companion. Some say it because their partner said it, and they don't want their partner to feel bad. Others say it because they think that if they use those three words it is a way of holding your lover, and kind of stopping them from leaving you. Their lover is on the basis of leaving them, so they say those three words to force them stay for an extra couple of months. People also say it to show their lovers that they are very serious about the relationship, and that as much as they play around and hurt their feelings, they are "sincere". Love is thrown around nowadays too much, and is often used for the wrong reasons. Some girls and boys, hold on these words, and never say it because when they said it to their ex, thats when things started changing. At the point where they were most vulnerable, and open to their mate, that is when their lover hurt them and left them. When a mate says ILY in less than two months, I think there is something to question. In many relationships I said I love you, before the two months mark, and now as I grown older, I really doubt that I was in love. The reason I say that is because most my relationships never went past 3 months. How is that love? I was blind to the full meaning of love, but I am not the only one. Many boys and girls dont know the meaning, but friends are saying it, their parents are saying it, they see it on tv, and all around them. "Sometimes love comes around and knocks you down" -K.H. thank you Slim x3