Thursday, June 4, 2009
Cheating
This blog is going to require comments so I can get a better sense of where you are at. Do you think that when a boyfriend/girlfriend cheats that they should be forgiven. I have to say it depends on how long you guys been going out. If its 3 months and under I think its bad but not too bad to cheat. But once it gets past the 3 months mark you should be secure enough in your relationship that you don't want nothing else but your lover and what they have to offer. I also think it depends on how the lover is treating you. If the lover is constantly nagging you, always accusing you of doing something, and never understand where your coming from, they should expect that your unhappiness will either lead you to cheat or to break up with them. But if you don't break up with them, they should sense that something is terribly wrong. I have another question.. why when a boy cheats, its a huge thing, but when a girl cheats they expect you to forgive them because it was a small thing. I do not think thats fair especially since the boy tends to forgive them, but the girl tends to not forgive the boy as often. It is very wrong to punish cheating with cheating, because thats just dumb. If both of you guys are cheating then yall should just end it, because obviously it is not working. This quote is for those boyfriends number 2 and those girlfriends number 2 "if your not good enough for them to leave their lover for, then your not really that good" and "if they can cheat on their lover for you, imagine what they are doing to you". Please leave comments on this blog..
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alrightttttttt . honestly .. i don't think cheating is ever really okay when it comes to relationships but thas jss me . i think that, if you're gon get yahself into a relationship, there's obviously something thas going for you inside, otherwise, you wouldn't be in a relationship . you get me ? i jss think that, for two people to get into a relationship, there's obviously something there between them, thas pulling them closer together . i don't care if it's a day, a week, a month or years . i don't really think cheating is ever not bad under any circumstances . and i say this bechuz .. i could only imagine how i'd feel if someone cheated on me with someone else . it'll jss make me doubt myself, it'll lower my self-esteem when it's already low as it is, it'll jss make me question myself and wonder whas there something i coulda done to keep him here with me, is there something wrong with me, am i not pretty enough, etc etc . the list of questions could go on and on . but lastly, it'll make myself feel as if i whasn't good enough, or i jss whasn't enough for him, which will jss make me .. well you know . and for the why when girls cheat, they expect you to forgive them and yeah . here's what i'ma say which i don't necessarily think is true, but, it's jss how things are seen from the outside so to say . it's jss, it seems like when a guy cheats on a girl, the girl faces so many hardships from that, getting her heart broken, and so fourth . and thas the main thing, guys are normally seen as .. i don't wanna use the word heartless, but, it's almost like it's nearly impossible to break a guy's heart, which i know isn't true, but for a good amount of the guys, they jss let it be and move on to the next girl . and thas what some girls do too, so don't get me wrong . but, iuono . thas a tough question .. :/ i guess it's jss how things are in the world ; pretty unfair huh ?
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ReplyDeletewell i dont think that cheating is right at all cuz it shows dat u realli dont care about that person....so y not just make life easyer n end the dam relationship.n idc if u boi or girl n u cheat u both wrong n they both shouldnt be forgiven ..but funny there are bois out they that just go in a relationship to cheat cuz they no that their stupid friends are goin to look up to them n make them feel they all dat but whos to say . i find dis whole cheat thing unreasoable.if u not happy n yr relationship not workin just end it cuz the onli thing u doin is hurtin each other by cheat ugh ~boiz~
ReplyDeleteOk I wud hve 2 say that wen a guy or gurl say lets b more den friends n the other agrees dey are willin 2 start a more serious relationship…so wen a guy or gurl cheatz dey shudnt b 4given…wen u got in da bed with that person it was a CHOICE dat didn’t hve 2 b made….u knew u was in a relationship….yes sum are forgiven but I feel like once dey make a mistake there are many more 2 cum….i jus feel like its not rite 2 waste a person tyme…tell dem how much u love dem n all dis n den go out n cheat..like r u serious dere is no way u can luv him or her wen u went out n did you….2 b honest I think boyz are da bigger cheaterz..girls can b more faithful but now gurls do go out n cheat… da reason 4 dis is dat gurls ben hurt so mani tymes by boys n heard so mani lies…dey now r jus treatin u how dey ben treated…cheatin all 2gether is jus stupid becuz one dai u mite lose sum1 realli gudd
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