Thursday, June 4, 2009
tEEN sEX
Why is there so much pressure to have sex as teen. Why do you have to have sex in order to be seen as popping or cool. I don't understand why people feel inferior if you are a virgin. If anything you are more superior because you chose not to be just another statistic in teen pressure. You chose to stand of what you believe in and be different from everybody else who is attempting to judge you. I think sex is a bond that should be shared with someone you truly love and that you can't live without, which is a marriage partner. I don't think teenagers saying that boyfriends/girlfriends fit that role because lil boys and lil girls are constantly changing, and they don't know what they truly want. I also feel that as teenagers, you don't know the true definition of love, or the significance of sex. For teenagers it is seen as a way to look right to your friends. I truly don't care what people say because I am very secure with who I am. If the person truly loves you, they can wait until marriage.
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" I don't think teenagers saying that boyfriends/girlfriends fit that role because lil boys and lil girls are constantly changing, and they don't know what they truly want. " - quite true i gotta say for some . i honestly don't know why this is sucha big deal when it really shouldn't be . and i do feel that there's a lotta pressure to have sex as a teen which is something i really don't get . and i like this part .. " If anything you are more superior because you chose not to be just another statistic in teen pressure. " i really like that . and i do agree with that . i think sex is something that should be shared when there's a significance to it, when you know it's special and meaningful to the both of you . well thas wha i think anyway . and i'm glad to see that you're secure with who you are, bechuz that shows true strength in you and thas jss awesomeeeeeee x]
ReplyDeletethank you my anna :-p
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. It's better to have sex with someone you truly love instead of someone you don't. Otherwise, what's the whole point of the term "making love" when it's with someone you don't love.
ReplyDelete"Why is there so much pressure to have sex as teen. Why do you have to have sex in order to be seen as popping or cool. I don't understand why people feel inferior if you are a virgin. If anything you are more superior because you chose not to be just another statistic in teen pressure."-----BESTIE I HVE 2 AGREE WITH U ON THIS ONE I FEEL THT ESPECIALY SUM GURLZ ARE PRESSURED BY BOYS 2 HVE SEX WITH DEM...N YES U DO HVE SUM GURLZ WIT LOW SELF ESTEEM DAT WIL DO IT JUS 2 FEEL LOVED N FEEL PRETTY LIKED OTHER GURLZ..BUT AT DA END OF DA DAI DEY HVE FAILED 2 REAIZE DA GUY LIKED HER CUZ SHE GAVE IT UP... IF U HVE 2 GO ROUND HVIN SEX JUS 2 B LIKED BY OTHERZ DEN U NEED 2 B ALONE BECUZ THOSE APPARENTLY DNT CARE BOUT U...DNT LET NO ONE PRESSURE U N B SUM1 UR NOT CUZ AT DA END OF DA DAI U WUD REGRET IT ALL....SEX CAN WAIT
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